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This blog is about romance — the concept of romance, the science of romance, romance movies, romance writing, and my experiences as a romance writer.

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And yes, I write contemporary romance novels!

My books:

Feature gamma heroes (i.e. alphas without the arrogance)
Are set internationally
Include on the page love scenes, but don’t use graphic language
Always include a dramatic, satisfying “I love you” conclusion
Are fairly short (around 250 pages), so you can get to that “I love you” fast

You can learn more about my books here.

01Nov

Netflix’s friends-to-lovers romcom Players is a romp, but its low-key romance strikes out

This is a critique, not a review; I assume you’ve either seen this movie, or don’t mind major spoilers.

Once again, I am fully topical – here in November publishing a critique of a movie that came out in February!

But despite being a Netflix subscriber and a romance blogger, I somehow didn’t hear of this movie until a few weeks ago.

Maybe the problem was the terrible title – Players?? Wasn’t that a recent tv show? It doesn’t exactly scream romance, now does it.

01Oct

Why I DIY self-publish + My cover art dilemma

When I was in grade 2, my teacher had our class put on a play in our school’s basement – it was the classic fable, The Little Red Hen.

If you’re not familiar, The Little Red Hen is the story of a hen who sets out to make some bread – from scratch. And at each stage in the process, she calls on the other farm animals to help her out. But, being lazy or otherwise occupied (or perhaps suffering from celiac?), they always refuse.

So, once she finally finishes baking the bread, she refuses to share.

I believe the intended moral of the fable is that if you do nothing, you get nothing.

But my young brain framed things differently. My interpretation was, if you do everything, you get everything.

01Sep

Mother-daughter drama makes A Family Affair a dull romance

This year, a couple of high-profile streaming romances have shared a certain theme: A slightly older woman falls for a younger celebrity, to the displeasure of her young adult daughter.

So, hooray??

Really, I do applaud the older woman representation which is probably long overdue. But, I’m not convinced putting all your eggs in the mother-daughter conflict basket is really the way to go in a romance.

31Jul

Wish-fulfillment at its worst: A critique of The Idea of You

It’s funny how not-fun the The Idea of You is considering it’s probably the purest wish-fulfillment fantasy I’ve ever seen.

Okay, I hear you wondering, isn’t all romance wish-fulfillment?

Yes, to a degree. It’s not unusual for people to dream of love and a happy ending, and romance provides readers with a way to live and relive that kind of wish.

And I personally don’t think there’s anything wrong with that! Escapism really isn’t a problem, unless it’s somehow getting in the way of your real life. (And I don’t think it gets in the way very often.)

So why am I making a big deal about wish-fulfillment in The Idea of You?

I shall explain.

31May

Bomb-bastic action meets chivalrous love; A critique of The Fall Guy movie

I didn’t think I’d like this movie.

I disliked the trailers – they featured mostly action scenes, lame action humour (most of which does not appear in the film, btw), with a small side helping of mild, low-conflict romance.

Plus, I think I’ve become suspicious of all A-list action-romances since The Lost City and Shotgun Wedding, which were both pretty ‘mid’ (as my son would say).

But, hey Mikey, I liked it!

31Mar

Attention! This is how to achieve romantic tension

Have you ever read or watched a romance that seemed to have all the right elements in place – the meet cute, the attraction, the conflict, the I love you’s and the happy ending – but it just felt…

Flat?

Of course you have.

The problem with those stories is they lack romantic tension.

You know romantic tension, right?

It’s that feeling of being on the edge of your seat, itching, quaking, shaking while you wait for two characters to FINALLY get together.

31Jan

Trope-packed rom-com Anyone But You has its heart in the right place, but it won’t make you swoon

If you haven’t heard, Anyone But You is a rare theatre-released rom-com, that has become a sleeper hit since its December 22 opening. To date, its box office take is over $170M globally.

30Nov

7 reasons why we love those terrible, cheesy, wonderful Christmas romance movies

Ok, it may be a stretch to say we all love those cheesy Christmas romance movies (think Hallmark). But clearly a lot of us like them, or they wouldn’t make approximately 5 million each calendar year.

So, for you Grinch’s (before he turned nice) out there, here’s my list of 7 reasons why we love those cheesy, horrible movies.

30Sep

7 things to love about the Red, White, & Royal Blue, the movie

Finally, this movie came out!

Ok, bad pun. And it actually came out, on Prime, way back in August. I did watch it within a day or two of its release, but it’s taken me this long to get to writing this critique.

And usually, my critiques end up being very, um, critical. But, I liked this movie, not gonna lie, so this time I’m going to focus on what I liked, and then answer the most important question of all (at least, where romance movies are concerned): Is it romantic?

30Jul

A post-mortem on self-publishing my first romance novel

This blog is about romance and writing, but also about my life as a romance writer.

But, I realized I haven’t posted anything about publishing my first book yet!

The book is called His Brother’s Mistress, and is about what happens when gorgeous CEO Matt Valetta finds Lucy Alberti living in his recently-deceased brother’s apartment in Rome, and assumes she was his mistress.

So here’s my story of publishing this book…